Blogger Recognition Award

This is long overdue, and I apologize to my dear friend Jenni for taking so long to pull this together.

My dearest Jenni,

Thank you so much for nominating me for this award. I am blown away by the amount of support you have given me and how much love you send my way. I am beyond grateful for you, and I am so glad that we have connected in this wonderful world of blogging. I am not sure where I would be in this journey if it wasn’t for all of your kind words and continuous flow of kindness.

Thank you, so very much, from the bottom of my heart.

The Blogger Recognition Award

The Blogger Recognition Award is a blogger award that recognizes a bloggers hard work and devotion towards their writing.

My writing and my page mean the world to me, so to receive recognition for all the hard work and continuous effort I put into it is so very humbling. I am beyond honored for this nomination


1.Thank the blogger(s) for nominating you and give the link to their blog.
2.Write a post on your site displaying the award that describes why you started your blog.
3.Write 2 pieces of advice you have for new bloggers.
4.Nominate up to 15 other bloggers that you admire and appreciate.

My Nominator

Jenni, of Housewife Hustle, emanate’s originality from her blog. She is everything realistic and relative when it comes to discussing topics such as motherhood, life, and wellness. She get’s raw about her struggles with her sight and her anxiety. She’s your go to for all your blogging needs. She’s also exceptionally inspiring when it comes to women and our personal fight with body image. Check out her e-book, Eat The Damn Muffin, available on Amazon.


Messy Mama’s Origin

Messy was the perfect depiction of my journey into Motherhood. After a complicated pregnancy, a rough delivery, and a long search of losing myself in my new role, Messy Mama was born.

I’ve always loved writing, and as a Stay-At-Home Mom, I needed an outlet. Reading inspirational blog posts from Mom’s who experienced my same tribulations helped me climb out of the rut and chaos I found myself in. I wanted to give that back to the new mom’s who were trailing behind me. I wanted to put my experiences out there and maybe reach someone at just the right moment, like other bloggers had done for me.

Copyright 2018 Messy Mama

Since then, Messy Mama has gown, and continues to grow.  I am on a path to a new direction for my blog and I can’t wait to see where it takes me.

Tips for New Bloggers

1. Research! Research! Research! If you are thinking about starting a blog or are brand new to the blogging community, there is an e-city of information at your fingertips that will guide you in the direction you want to go with your blogging. Take the time to dive into discovering where your blog can take you and run with it.

2. Network! Create social media platforms to promote your blog and seek out other bloggers. These people will become your greatest key to help you build and grow your blog, but be genuine. Don’t make friends with the intention of growing just yourself. The friendships I have built from my blogging community have been extremely inspirational and the amount of love I receive is truly amazing.


Here are a few people who inspire me everyday. Thank you for your friendship and all of the support you have given me. The amount of hard work and effort you put into your blogs is so motivating. If you were already nominated for this, I am sorry. No expectation required. Just know that I adore you tremendously. That goes for everyone!

The Art of Blogging

Keep Calm It’s Life

Mischievous Words By Marta

Teach Play Love

Mom and Her Goals

Raising You Maintaining Me

Reinvention is a Mutha

Thoughts With N

Mum That’s A Bad Word

Good Bye Anxiety Hello Joy

Too Much Character

Purpose Filled Mommy with Mini Marie

Boldly Beagly

Caffeine Chaos and Grace

Mini Minimalist Mama

Sunshine Blogger Award


I am honored and extremely grateful to have been nominated for the Sunshine Blogger award by Justin, of Snap Shots Made Yesterday. Thank you so much for your nomination.

What is the Sunshine Blogger Award?

An award nominated by peers recognizing their fellow writers for their inspiring and creative blogs.

Here are the rules:

Thank the blogger who nominated you and link to the original post
Answer the 11 questions they’ve asked you
Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 questions
Have fun!!

copyright 2019 Messy Mama

How long have you been blogging?

My blogging journey will reach it’s beautiful anniversary of one year in just a few months. I am super excited about this milestone and I am looking forward to where the next year is going to take me.

What is your greatest accomplishment so far with your blog or just in life?

My greatest accomplishment with my blog is that I have kept doing it for the last year, and that I have continued to do so even when I felt like giving up. Sometimes I feel like I am not where I want to be and get discouraged. Regardless, I keep pushing forward.

What one thing do you do that helps churn the blog mill?

My daughter supplies me with endless material. Being a parent is full of topics that inspires most of my topics. That and my anxiety…

If you had to blog about one item the rest of your life, what would it be?

Definitely my present niche. Parenting in general covers so many different things that I can stay within my niche and have a ton of things to talk about. Especially when it comes to the realistic aspect of parenting.

Have you ever published a post and deleted it later? If so, why?

I have not, but I have a ton of writing that I haven’t posted. I put a lot of thought into my writing and sometimes they get really personal. Sometimes I just don’t have the courage to hit publish and they sit in my drafts.

What one piece of advice would you give to someone who is thinking of starting a blog but had no idea where to start?

Research the crap out of blogging and find some great bloggers to follow.

What is your favorite social media platform to use for your blog?

Twitter is my favorite. There are some really great supporters on Twitter and I feel like it’s a great place to establish yourself to really promote your blog.

Do you read/show your blog to anyone before you post it?

I read my posts to my one year old. She doesn’t understand but listening to it out loud is helpful for editing.

What is the ultimate goal for you and your blog?

I started blogging because I love to write, but also because I found solace in other blogs when I felt alone or isolated. When other writers were writing about what I was going through, and used their platform to discuss difficult topics, it was just so empowering for me. I want to do the same for others.

If you were asked to set up a conference for bloggers, what location would you choose?

I feel like a lot of my followers are wine drinkers for me, so Napa seems like a legit place to go.

Would you rather live in the country or the city?

Honestly, I need my share of both. Some days, the calm sounds of birds chirping and being able to see the stars at night is so peaceful. But the city lights and excitement are great when I need a boost.


In my time of blogging, I have stumbled upon many blogging sites. There are many out there that I love to read, but these 11 are the ones that keep me hooked and give me guidance in my own blogging journey.

Here are my 11 nominations:

Keep Calm It’s Life

Our Blended Abode

Teach Play Love

Boldly Beagley

Housewife Hustle

Lost Twenty-Something

Good Bye Anxiety, Hello Joy

Joy For Mom

Cadies Corner

Philosophy of Dad

Miscievous Words My Marta
Thank you, to all of you. For being inspiring, and instilling your passion to all of the blogging community.

Here are my questions for you:

1. Why did you start blogging?
2. Who is your biggest inspiration in the blogging community?
3. What advice would you give to new bloggers?
4. What is you blogging goals, what do you hope to achieve?
5. What was the greatest thing you have experienced within the blogging community?
6. What is your favorite part about blogging?
7. Why did you choose your niche?
8. What is your favorite thing to write about?
9. How long have you been blogging?
10. What’s one thing you would like to talk about on your blog but are too afraid to?
11. What’s the story behind your blog name?




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*Disclaimer – Statements made in this post are of my own opinions, views and thoughts. I am not a professional and should not be regarded as such.

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Passionate Creator Award


What is the Passionate Creator Award?

The Passionate Award was created by none other than my good blogger friend, Kiersty of Caffeine Chaos and Grace. She created this award for bloggers to nominate their peers who go above and beyond. Bloggers who produce a wonderful page with amazing posts but also those who are exceptionally supportive behind the scenes. Bloggers who support their fellow bloggers. Writers who express a great passion for all things blogging and the blogging community. To find out why she created this Award, check out Kiersty’s post.

Rules for the Award:

  • Thank the person who nominated you and include a link to their blog.
  • Nominate at least 3 other bloggers who have helped you make your way in the blogging community.
  • List 5 things that made becoming a blogger possible for you and/or anything you would recommend to others.
  • List 5 things you wish you had known before you started that might help others looking to create a web-page.

Thank You, Kiersty

I came across Kiersty’s page when  I first started blogging as Messy Mama three months ago. She was the first blogger to be supportive of my writing and really made me feel confident in the direction my page was going. Not only does she read my work regularly, but she continuously tells me how great she thinks I am which means an awful lot to me. I am exceptionally honored to have been considered as one of the first participants of this award. Kiersty is a beautiful Mama who is compassionate, thoughtful and inspiring. Her writing talent shines through in each of her works. Please take some time and go check her out at Caffeine, Chaos, and Grace.


My Nominees:

  • Becca of Becca Blogs It Out – Becca is a mom to twins. She’s honest and she’s relate-able. She blogs about her life as a mother, her struggles with anxiety and real life issues that she faces. She also gives great pointers for new bloggers. I discovered Becca as a very new blogger. I was drawn in because I felt like I could connect with her work, but I also looked to her site for information on dealing with my anxiety as a mother and excelling as a blogger.


  • Sonja of Too Much Character – Sonja is a heart warming, hilarious mama blogger. Her humor shines through her posts and tweets but she also get’s real about our mental health as parents. Another wonderful things about Sonja is that she is so supportive. She takes the time to interact with you and your blog.


  • Micah of ParentalGRIT – I found Micah on Twitter. Even though he had well over a thousand followers, he reached out a hand to a Green Newbie like me. Thanks to a few shout outs and shares, my Twitter followers jumped from single digits to the hundreds. I look forward to his blog posts every week and his comical perception of Fatherhood that helps make parenting a little it easier.

My Answers:

5 things that made becoming a Blogger possible for me.

  • Other Bloggers – I had attempted blogging a few years ago but knew nothing on how to gain views. Year after year of writing, my blog just hung in space. Eventually, I gave up. When I decided to start back up, I discovered how to blog posts from other bloggers. These gave great tips on excelling.
  •  Free courses – Some of these how to blog posts offered free courses to get me started. I watched as many as I could find. This led me to googling more courses and I discovered different tips and ideas I could tailor.
  • WordPress – Being a part of wordpress introduced me to other bloggers. These bloggers helped me gain a network base I could start following on social media and interacting with.
  •  Social Media – People know other people… and that goes on forever and ever. Especially people in your niche. I built an entire network on Social media that helped me build my followers.
  • My baby – I would just be Messy if it wasn’t for my little girl. All of my inspiration comes from my daughter and everything that I am learning as she grows. It is amazing how many life lessons you learn as a parent and that gives me the material I need to keep my page going.

5 things I wish I had known before I started.

  •  Legal pages are necessary! – In all the how to courses, no one told me about Disclaimers, terms of use, copyright, and privacy policies. It is important to research the legal aspect of blogging before you get your page up and running.
  •  You can monetize your blog in so many ways and you don’t have to have millions of followers to do it. Google adds and Amazon affiliate links are a great place to start. I am still learning all about this.
  •  There’s so many ways to customize your website to fit your style. You can add things, group posts together, feature certain writings. There’s thousands to choose from.
  •  Guest posts are a great way to put yourself out there. Ask people to write for your blog or ask to write for someone else’s blog. Just be sure to inquire about a fee. Some people may want to charge you for posting their article.
  •  Find a mentor – I haven’t done this yet but I think it is such a great idea. Do you follow another blogger religiously? Are they extremely successful? Reach out to them, introduce yourself, tell them why you love their blog, and ask them for advice. If they reciprocate, stay in touch. Who knows, maybe you’ll discover a Best Blogger Friend that’ll pass on any knew knowledge to you.

Blogger Recognition Award

Just two and a half months in and I have received my fifth award nomination. This is not meant to brag. Honestly, I am overwhelmed with the amount of support and recognition I have received to my blog in just the short few months since I have started it. I have fallen in love with the art of blogging. I never imagined I would already be in this position. So many of you have reached out to me to let me know that my writing has influenced you in some way or that my discussions have inspired you. My passion is writing, and my drive comes from every single person I have encouraged. Each and every one of you are the reason I keep writing!


Thank you to Bella-Rose from blog, Thoughts With N, for nominating me for the Blogger Recognition Award. In her blog, she writes about life and her mental health. Her words are artistic and they are strung together perfectly to inspire her readers, me being one of them. She is a mom, like all of us, trying to make it through our day, one coffee at a time. Go and give this wonderful writer a follow!

Blogger Recognition Award

The Blogger Recognition Award is awarded to bloggers by their peers on the characteristics of hard work and talent. For some of us, running a blog is much more than a hobby. It’s a desire, a way of life, and an outlet. Bloggers are recognized for putting their heart and soul into their blogs and maintaining their sites. Hard work and hours of dedication we put into our writings and more hours of promoting it is acknowledged and appreciated by fellow bloggers.


Write a post showcasing your award

Thank your nominator

Share a short story about how your blog started

Share two important pieces of advice to bloggers who are just starting out

Nominate 15 other bloggers

The Birth Of Messy Mama

I had first attempted blogging about five years ago. I had mainly discussed animal welfare issues and talked about my love for writing. The blog went no where. I knew nothing about promoting and networking. I wrote here and there when something came to mind, but I was pretty much all over the map with my writing. I knew nothing of niches, domains, or the blogging community. I took a break to start my book. After having my daughter, I felt like I had so much to say about everything that I had experienced and what I was learning while I was raising her. It made me think that I would have loved to have someone like me, writing it all down, so I had an idea about what I was getting myself in to. The What To Expect books never tell you about the life lessons you learn while raising a child.

Wondering why some bloggers were successful and why I wasn’t, I spent more time researching and learning about what it takes to blog. It is so much more than just writing and publishing. I am still learning something new every single day.

Messy Mama was the title I gave myself. I knew I wanted to write about being a new mom, but I wanted to be realistic. I wanted to define motherhood as it really was, not what social media made it out to be. I was a new mom who couldn’t get her shit together and I embraced that. Motherhood is chaotic and it’s messy. I want other new mom’s to know that and I wanted them to embrace it to.


If you are just starting out on this blogging journey, congratulations! Welcome!

1). Read, a lot! Read other bloggers content, read all the how-to’s, read the advice, … read, read, read! Reach out to peers, introduce yourself, ask questions, and network. Domain hosts like wordpress give you access to so many other bloggers that you can reach out to. Social media is also pretty amazing.

2). Don’t give up. The first step in blogging is learning. Take time to learn all about blogging and absorb all the information on how to be successful. Take notes. Learn, learn, learn. Blogging is a slow paced process. Focus on the journey and not on the destination. There will be days when your views will be low. Don’t let that deter you. Give your blog so much love and attention because you love doing it, not because you’re trying to get rich quick.


Manic Mama

Caffeine Chaos and Grace

Let’s Go Somewhere, McKinney

Three Times Daddy

Purpose Filled Mommy

Green Loc’d Monster

Marabou Services

Geek Mamas

Written in Waikiki

Too Much Character

The Black Princess Diaries

Your Mental Health and Happy Lifestyle


Navigating Darkness

The Salty Mamas

Versatile Blogger Award

I have been nominated by Lisa and Dan of the Let’s Go Somewhere, McKinney blog. I am beyond honored that you folks chose me for this award. Thank you guys for your nomination. The McKinney’s are a husband and wife duo who blog about their travel experiences, coaching, and life. If you’re not already following these two, go check them out.

What is the Versatile Blogger Award?

The Versatile Blogger Award is awarded to bloggers by their peers. Consideration for the award consists of the quality of the written work, the special characteristics of the subject discussed, and the creativity of the content.

Versatile Blogger Award Rules

Thank the person who nominated you for the award

Include a link to their blog

Select and nominate 15 blogs/bloggers that you’ve recently discovered or follow regularly

Tell the person who nominated you 7 things about yourself

Seven Things About Me

I’m a huge animal advocate

I have spent a lot of time volunteering for domestic animal shelters, I was involved with training pitbulls so that they could be adopted, and I contributed in several fundraisers to raise money for pet’s in need and animal shelters.

My favorite animal is an Elephant

I raise money every year for Save The Elephants, an Elephant protection organization in Africa. I have tons of elephant stuff and I am a huge advocate against trophy hunting.

I have two cat’s and a dog

Before I was a human mom, I was a fur-mom. I still and will always consider my furry ones my babies.

I like wine


I am a closet scrapbooker

Not a lot of people know this about me. Now they do.

I am in the process of writing my first book.

I have been working on it for a long time. I am hoping to get it published by next year. Fingers crossed that it becomes a hit. Move over, J.K. Rowling. (I’m just kidding, you’re more amazing than I’ll ever be! *wink)

Did I mention that I like wine?

Here are my nominations:

Mischievous Words By Marta

Thoughts With N

The Mom Blog WI

Manic Mama

Caffeine Chaos and Grace

Housewife Hustle

Too Much Character

Chaos and Quiet

The Story of John Sennett

The Over Tired Mum Blog

Stay At Homies

The Bipolar Writer Mental Health Blog

No Light Without Darkness

The Art of Blogging

Beauty Beyond Bones

If you have already been nominated for this award or if I nominated you for a different award, no biggie. Just know that I think you are great!

Sunshine Blogger Award

I am honored and extremely grateful to have been nominated for the Sunshine Blogger award by blogger Tera of It’s My Crazy Beautiful Life.

What is the Sunshine Blogger Award?

An award nominated by peers recognizing their fellow writers for their inspiring and creative blogs.

Here are the rules:

Thank the blogger who nominated you and link to the original post
Answer the 11 questions they’ve asked you
Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 questions
Have fun!!

Where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?

In five years I hope to be a mom of two, working on my third book.

What do you hope to get out of blogging?

I want my words to inspire other people. A few people have reached out to me and told me that I inspire them to write and discuss tough subjects. That means everything to me.

Who is your favorite celebrity and why?

My favorite celebrity is Will Smith because he is funny, hard working, and he doesn’t get caught up in Hollywood drama. I also love how inspirational he has been on his social media. His words are motivational and his work ethic is so very rare.

Who is your best supporter?

My best supporter is my husband. He just gets me.
After a long stressful day, how do you relax?

Wine, lots of wine. And my writing.

What is your spirit animal and why?

I’d have to say that my spirit animal is an Elephant. They represent strength and their daughters never leave them.
What advice would you give to new bloggers?

Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Your words could change someone’s life or inspire them to make bold moves. There will be days when you wonder if any one is listening or if your words are making an impact. Believe me, they are. If you feel like you are in a writing slump, take a break, but don’t give up.
It’s fall, what is your favorite thing about it?

Oh my god! Everything!!! Cider everything, pumpkin everything, the colors, the crisp air, the clothes, and of course Halloween!! Everything! Everything! Everything!!
What are your top 3 apps for blogging?

I’m still learning a lot about the blogging world but the ones I’ve discovered so far are Cava, Hootsuite, and Quotes Creater.

If you could donate to a charity, which one would you?

Every year I raise money for an African Elephant protection organization called Save The Elephants, so definitely that one.

What’s your favorite scary movie?

The Exorcist

And now I nominate you…

Your words have inspired me and your blogs keep me coming back for more. You guys are truly an amazing group of writers and I am honored to have connected with you through the blogging world.

Manic Mama

Caffeine Chaos and Grace

Thoughts of Payne

The Mom Blog WI

A Fierce Mind

Parental Grit

The Bipolar Writer Mental Health Blog

Kindness Compassion and Coaching

The Mom At Law

The Dad Father

Chaos and Quiet

Now here are 11 questions for you:

Who inspires you the most?
Why did you start blogging?
What’s the greatest advice you have ever received?
What motivates you to write?
What do you do for self-care?
If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
What is the best work you have ever written?
Who is your hero?
How long have you been blogging?
What was your favorite vacation / getaway?
If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?


Congratulation to you and I look forward to seeing all of your answers!